LISTEN TO LIFE

One day, my friend called me and invited me for lunch. I could sense from her voice that she was super excited. So, when I went to meet her, I came to know the reason. After looking for a job for months, she finally received a response from one company. She was over the moon and was ready to live a perfectly settled life with her would be husband. I congratulated her and wished her good luck. After few months she again called. But, this time she sounded depressed as she was sacked by the company for some reason. Moreover, her marriage did not work too. She cried her heart out and I comforted her but she became hopeless and still is in deep depression.


We have the tendency of giving instructions to life and telling it our plans and then expecting it to follow the same. But, life has its own plans for you. You can tell life what you want from it but whether it will follow that or not is its own wish. You need to listen to life. Do not just ask for what you want from it. Be patient to see where life wants to take you. Just flow with the flow. Do not force your life to flow against the current. As I always say, what is meant for you will always be yours. But, life has crafted its own path to take you there. And this path is certainly not smooth. It is full of ditches and potholes which symbolises the difficulties you will face. Trust your life that wherever it will carry you will be the best for you.

This does not mean that you have to relax and accept things at face value. You have to make decisions in pursuit of your plans and sweat to make them successful but at the same time have a flexible mindset that will embrace changes in your plans and anything that will unfold later. Do not hold to your plans so firmly that your mind refuse to accept something else. I have seen people blowing out of proportion when something does not work out. The world is not ending people!



 It is okay if life gives you the biggest blow. Get up and start again with full faith in life. It has closed one door because you were not meant to enter it. Just believe that another door will open. No matter what happens, you will reach your destiny. So do not worry if things are not working out as you planned. Have faith and keep going. Something beautiful awaits you!

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